Advice on dating a man going through a divorce
If he is complaining about getting railroaded by “the system,” it could indicate that he is too cheap to pay for a good lawyer.Do you want to be with a man who is a big cheapskate?
This means that he needs to be part of a relationship drama instead of part of a relationship.
Is his idea of a relationship to be a lazy slug and mooch off his lover?
Can you mentally compare how he is now with how you perceive him to have been just a few months or years ago when the marriage crumbled?
You might actually become a mini-expert on your state’s legal nuances involving separation and community property. This is often a turnoff, but you can make this time matter for you in addition to just being a shoulder to cry on.
Listen carefully to what he says about the judge’s rulings; the law is based on reasonable expectations.